I had a massage by a blind man.

I've had exactly one massage since I've been here, and this is in the land of massages where a two hour massage is about $10.00. Well, $10.00 and up. The place where we've been going while here, the past couple of years is aways down the street then across a very busy street so busy in fact that you have to climb a whole bunch of stairs, cross over the busy street on a pedestrian cross-over then down again to the sidewalk. Then you have to go past a whole bunch of street vendors to get to the place. It isn't fancy at all but it is very clean and the girls are very nice. They have you change into clean pajamas, they dim the lights, turn on the air conditioning and put on nice gentle thai music c.d's. What is frosting on the cake at this place is that for about the last half an hour of massage they use tiger balm and it not only smells so good it feels wonderful. They also wash your feet to begin with and offer tea at the end.

Well, I was walking along a side street yesterday and noticed a sign near our guesthouse that offered massages and for the same price as our other place. This meant that I could take a shower, throw on some clothes and head on down the street and reach the new place while I was still clean. Just getting to the other massage place is quite a workout. So last night I decided to try this new place. The building is brick and very nice.

Hmm...walked into the reception area that I had seen the day before while scoping out the place and the receptionist was there, straight ahead, and there were three massage tables to the immediate right. Hadn't seen that when I had peeked through the glass door the day before. No curtains, no privacy, and there were two men sitting there wearing clean white jackets and sunglasses. I immediately got the idea my massage would be by a blind person because years ago in Taiwan dad had gotten a massage by a blind woman. Well, here I am. Intimidated because there were no curtains for privacy. My massage would be done by a man, which I've never had before. But what to do...I had two choices: turn and run or bite the bullet and stay. How could I run out on a blind man? Couldn't. So I paid, up front, which I've never been asked to do before. The man put a clean sheet on the table and motioned for me to lay down. What?? No foot washing? No clean pajamas? Nope. Luckily I had just showered and thrown on the only pair of shorts I have here and a loose top. I was the only customer. They didn't turn down the lights at all (why on earth not, it wouldn't have made a difference to a blind man, right??), the music was on a radio station and was half talk and the worst part, the very worst part, was the receptionist who yakked constantly to one of the blind men. Now, these people didn't speak English and of course I don't speak Thai I layed there madder than a wet hen for paying the money up front and not speaking Thai and being able to tell them to shut the heck up. How, anyway, could I politely, gently and kindly tell a blind man to shut up in any language? It was actually the seeing-hearing-speaking woman who was at fault. I decided to grin and bear it. Finally, after 20-30 minutes the blind man who wasn't busy went somewhere and the woman didn't have anybody to talk to. So she was finally quiet. But the radio went on and on and on in Thai. Not much music either. It was like a talk radio show almost, but with one speaker. Don't know, don't care, what he was talking about. The massage. At first I thought he had never taken a massage course and was just being slow to drag out the two hours. But after awhile he really got into it and was actually very very good. He gave my back, shoulders and neck a fabulous workout. Finally it was over. I was up and out of there in a split second. I'd love to be able to go back and have a word with that crew. The woman is ruining the business for these wonderful blind men. Several things they need: 1. massage tables with curtains for privacy. 2. quiet, soothing atmosphere (be quiet woman). 3. dim the lights. 4. nice, soothing Thai music c.d.'s, not the radio, so there is no talking, only music. 3. wash the feet, if only with a warm cloth. 4. a warm cloth to the forehead before the head massage is a nice touch. 5. if the people down the street can use tiger balm, for the same price, these people can too. 6. they could offer a cup of tea at the end of the massage as other massage places do. Wish I spoke their language as I could help them with their business. Or maybe I should just mind my own business. But the blind man was so good, really so very good. Very professional. I can only just wish him the best from my heart.

Grandma IS alive!

When we first started staying at this guesthouse we'd see this elderly woman selling her vegetables along the street. She is extremely old. At first she was always sitting doing her selling. Then she would be laying down selling. Well, actually I've never seen a customer buy anything from her but surely somebody must in order for her to stay in business through the years. The last couple of years she would mostly be sleeping as we'd walk by. Then, the first few days we came this time we looked for her but nothing. She wasn't in her usual spot, nor anywhere else. We thought she had probably died. I'd say she is in her 90's or maybe even a hundred. Then low and behold she came back selling her things right in the same spot. Funny, the things that catch our attention. We were both so happy to see her alive! And able to be a businesswoman again. Amazing, at her age. Mind you, I'm certain that being a street vendor is not an easy task. Number one, it is hot. Hot and humid. All day long too. Then, where on earth do these people find a bathroom? It must be boring, boring, boring to sit there all day long and some of these people sit there half the night too. I suppose they go somewhere during the last half of the night. I hope she has a bed somewhere and a place to clean up and a family to take care of her. Or does her family put her out there day after day? Well, no matter, she is alive and has her little stall and we were happy to see her.  It did seem intrusive to take her picture...

A good looking new tuk-tuk.

Tuk-tuk's are all over but we never use them. I hate the bargaining hassle with their drivers. Bargaining, in my opinion, is a waste of time and energy. Taxies here have meters and the flag drop is 35 baht, about a dollar. It is just easier on the nerves to use a taxi although I remember the day when we used tuk-tuk's and it was fun. Now with the sky train we rarely even use a taxi, mostly just to and from the airport. We walk a lot, which isn't as easy as it sounds, if you remember the awful sidewalk conditions. I remember Onny and I discussing sidewalks in Saudi before we left. They were in poor repair and had holes and things and you had to watch every single step just like here and we said one thing we'd appreciate when we got back to the U.S. were good sidewalks!!

MK's for dinner last night.

MK's is a chain of restaurants usually, but not always, in shopping centers. The menu offers already made items but the main menu item is soup. Make it yourself soup. We like it. There is an electric hot pot built into the table and they bring a broth then you order individual items and cook it yourself in the broth. We ordered fried tofu, noodles,some greens and baby corn. They give you free iced tea. It's good but I'm not sure what kind of tea it is, maybe chrysanthumum. I need to find out what sauce they give you to put into the soup for flavoring, it is what makes the soup good. The little dish dad has in his hand has the sauce, they bring it around in a teakettle to refill it. The service here was terrible last night. I wanted rice and guess I asked the wrong man. I watched him as he ignored me and walked off and never spoke to our waiter at all. I had to ask three people for rice. Same with refill on drink. In fact we never saw the waiter who took our order until we left. I asked dad to not give one baht tip because none of them deserved a thing. There are small tiny Thai restaurants near our guesthouse and they are delighted we come in and can't do enough for us. Don't know what the difference is.

Would you like a cockroach for dinner?

Well, I suppose these are not really cockroaches but some type of beetle. Sorry to say this about Thai food but some of it makes me sick to look at. This definitely is a third world country.

A butterfly made from a carrot. Beautiful!

Dad had a glass of orange juice and pineapple juice with ginger. It was really delicious. They made it very pretty with a piece of carrot made to look like a butterfly. If you even need a pick me up try the orange juice/ginger combo. It did have fresh pineapple juice too but who has that at home?! Thais can afford to spend time creating beautiful things because labor here is very cheap. Cheap in the sense that the rich are very rich and exploit the poor who can be very poor. The guesthouse where we stay is not in a tourist part of town. A British man married a Thai woman whose father gave them the guesthouse as a wedding gift. They are probably about our age. This side of Bangkok is where the international airport used to be, but now the new international airport is on the other side of the city which has hurt business for the guesthouse. However, we have found an interesting new, small, shopping mall near here (Ari BTS station) that has a Starbucks and nearby is a McDonalds. They are both very popular. When we have been there we have been the only foreigners there and at times it is crowded with Thai people. Goes to show there is a thriving middle class. When we were in Nepal the big news in the paper was the grand opening of the first fast food restaurants in Nepal. They were KFC and Pizza Hut. We met an American man at the airport who spends a lot of time in Nepal and is friends with a Nepalese couple. They are both in the police force, he being a higher rank than she but the wife as a police woman makes $150 a month and her husband slightly more. They both have college degrees. They have a little girl and are paying $25.00 a month for her schooling, which shows how much they value her education. I don't think the average (and lower) Nepalese will be able to afford to eat at KFC or Pizza Hut. However, in the hills around Kathmandu are large homes which shows that they too have an upper class and those are the people who might support western fast food restaurants. Here in Bangkok it looks like there is a large middle and upper class. Strange, isn't it, coming from America and thinking people from middle and upper class eat at McDonalds!! It seems almost low class to us to eat there. Food prices at McDonalds here are about the same as in the U.S. They do have an egg and cheese breakfast sandwhich which isn't half bad. It is very white bread but at least it is bread and something different than rice.

Mangoes are in season now. Yummy!!